Meet The Admin Team


Medical Musings with Friends started in January 2017. I was resting one afternoon in my bedroom, contemplating the new year ahead and wondering what possible purpose my life could hold, as my body kept spectacularly attacking me from every angle.

I have a Rare Genetic Bone Disease with multiple bone breaks, ongoing surgeries, severe spinal stenosis compressing my lumbar spinal cord, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Permanent Colostomy due to a bowel prolapse, Fibromyalgia, Sjogrens Syndrome, Trigeminal Neuralgia, an Idiopathic Inflammatory Nerve Disease, plus a few other issues. It can be slightly overwhelming when the list adds up.

I suddenly had an idea, a slightly crazy idea, that maybe if I set up a closed forum for people with chronic, complex and rare diseases it could be an extension of my blog.

A place where a few people could gather to provide support and genuine understanding. A place where it was ok to “muse” about how complex life gets when you have more than one illness.

A place where you know others wouldn’t get scared by what they read but would feel your pain and understand your struggles. A place where other chronic illness bloggers and writers could share their work and words of wisdom.

A few people, maybe 50, or so I thought.

Within 6 months we had over 1400 members and 7 moderators assisting me. We continue to grow our membership weekly which still amazes me.

Unbelievable!! What a blessing, what a purpose, what an honour and privilege, to be trusted to provide such a large group of people a place to find true friendship, support and understanding.

So, I thought it was time to introduce more formally my beautiful team of moderators. They have each provided a short bio to tell you in their own words a little about themselves, plus a photo.

I can’t thank them enough for their personal support and commitment in joining me in this crazy musings journey. They are just the best, most warmest, caring people you could meet and they all volunteer their time while living with their own complex chronic diseases.💗💗

Sam Moss

So, here’s me…I live with my beautiful husband Peter, who is also my full time carer. We live in a stunning Bayside village in South East Queensland, Australia. When I’m not busy chatting with you all on the forum, I’m usually found blogging here on “My Medical Musings”  or writing articles.

If you would like to read a little more about me here’s the link to My Story

I’m a regular Contributor at “The Mighty”. You can check out my published articles at My Author Page

I also write @ Blogs by Christian Women

Sam Moss – Founder/Administrator (Australia)


Nik Watson

I have lived with Auto Immune conditions since I was 11 years of age and they add up to SLE (Lupus), RA, Osteoporosis and Ménière’s disease.
I’m known as Nik Puppykins…lover of two fur baby dogs. I have two, which, in conjunction with my gorgeous Mum, light up my life every day.

(Yes… I live with my wacky, meddling, inspiring, gorgeous, loving Mum ❤️)
My life is positively wonderful and full,  despite many episodic hardships over the years.

My motto is:

“One life…live it now, well, with joy and love and inspire others to do the same”
Family, friends, puppy cuddling, photography, market wandering, coffee, sushi, blue cheese, travel (and probably a few other loves I’ve forgotten!)..complete me. 😘😘

Nik Watson ( Australian Moderator)


Dave Head

Hello there my name is Dave, I’ve been married for 9 years, my wife and I have a 7 year old daughter as well as a 5 year old son.
Before the age of 21 I was rather healthy. In 2003 I was admitted to hospital and diagnosed with Ulceritive Colitis which after a few weeks in hospital it was determined I would require an Ileostomy. The Ileostomy is no permanent which is something I don’t mind at all.
In 2007 I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. This was a significant changing point in my life to say the least. I have been on three treatments for my MS, one of which did cause seizures at least one confirmed Gran Mal.
In 2012, I began to develop issues with my skin on both legs, arms as well as my back. After a number of doctors mis diagnosed the issue I was given the proper diagnosis of Pyoderma Gangrenosum. A very rare skin disease likened to having Ulceritive Colitis on the surface of the skin.
On a daily basis I have issues with my MS, my right shin has lifelong significant damage from the PG. I have come to a point I cannot work Full Time as it simply takes too much out of me. I began a blog in January 2017 in the hopes of sharing my experiences while helping others through their challenges and to understand they are not alone.
I am truly grateful for being a member of such an incredible group of individuals. We all have commonalities and are here to support, encourage and sometimes just listen.
Below are the links to my blog as well as Social Media feedsbforbthosebthat may be interested in learning or asking more.
Instagram~ davehead40
Twitter~ @DaveHead40

Dave Head (Canadian/US Moderator)

Courtney Soutar

Hi Musers, I’m Courtney and I live in North East Victoria. I have Crohns (with an ileostomy) and Fibromyalgia. My loves include dogs, tea and my family. I try and live by the motto of ‘laughter is the best medicine’❣

Courtney Soutar ( Australian Moderator)


Brigitte Oram

My name is Brigitte but everyone calls me Brig. I have 3 kids (2 teenagers and a tween going on twenty!)

I am generally a positive person, even though I deal with multiple health problems on a daily basis (including a Colostomy named Rosie, insulin dependent Type 2 Diabetes, Anxiety/Depression and the aftermath of Pulmonary Embolisms and an Ischemic Stroke).

Up until 2 years ago, I worked as a Support Teacher specialising in learning support and special education. I absolutely loved it, but I became too unwell and was spending a lot of time in hospital.

I love to make others laugh and have been told I have a cheeky sense of humour. I also enjoy arts and crafts, board games, adding to my owl collection and listening to music.

I feel very blessed and proud to be a part of this awe-inspiring group, I think you’re all so brave and amazing. Thank you for entrusting us with your stories and I look forward to getting to know you all.

Brigitte Oram (Australian Moderator)

Nicole Loffler

I’m Nicole, happily married wife to Ben and mother of two remarkable young people (18 + 21) from Western Australia. My health journey started over 20 years ago, when I was diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis and Ulcerative Colitis. I also have Gastroparesis, Fibromyalgia, Sciatica, Lung Disease and Functional Neurological Disorder.

I’m also in the unique position of being carer for my beautiful daughter Alysha, who has significant health issues as well. It is heartbreaking seeing her so unwell and in pain, but it has given us an extra special bond.

I’m an avid cook, addicted to cookbooks and am a huge MasterChef fan. I grew up on a farm and love animals, especially my beloved 17 year old cat. I enjoy scrapbooking, sewing and puzzles.

Nicole Loffler ( Australian Moderator)

Clare Rayner

Hi, I’m Clare. I live in a suburb south of Manchester, England. I love Medical Musings with Friends because it is supportive, helpful, amusing at times and is so good to be in contact with other people with a lot of chronic conditions! I look forward to helping support you.
The list of my medical problems is getting too long but fundamentally, I have had bad infections since aged 19, was diagnosed with immunedeficiency at 30. By this time I had had a lot of surgery and lung damage. I was physically fit and used to bounce back. On intravenous treatment, I had far fewer infections. Then I developed ulcerative colitis. I also have Hypermobile Ehlers danlos  syndrome, causing spinal problems, mast cell activation disorder, low blood pressure, gut and bladder problems.  In recent years, I have had sepsis which at the moment has left me fighting infection all over the place. I don’t know how I’m alive sometimes, but I am, and I do understand the stress of living with and trying to juggle health problems! I am medically retired but I teach two half days a week in term-time at the university (communication skills etc-communication is one of my passions).
As some people have written down their mottos, I thought I’d tell you mine: “never get up with the lark, get up for a lark.” That might be English slang, so fundamentally it means I don’t like getting up in the morning, but I do like to look for something funny  in each day. I love going out for coffee, occasionally visiting an art gallery, and visiting family and friends when I can. Love animals too especially dogs and cats. My hobbies are painting, playing the flute and going to the theatre. I haven’t been able to do them for years but I haven’t give up hope. That’s my other motto…”never give up!” .


Clare Rayner – ( UK Moderator)


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13 thoughts on “Meet The Admin Team

  1. Love it!!! 🙂 It is wonderful to see everyone’s smiling faces in the one spot. Courtney, you are so right with your motto – laughter IS the best medicine! Sam, as always, well done this is an awesome post and look forward to seeing everyone’s responses on the forum too x x x x Esther

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    1. I am sure he wouldn’t be unimpressed with you Sam. I can’t imagine it. Anyway, as I re-posted in my comment above he was just being a gentleman (for the short time he didn’t appear on the post until you fixed it) and letting the ladies go first:).

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  2. Very cool! Thanks for introducing us to all these wonderful people! With such positivity flowing from all of you, it’s no wonder the group has grown so large, so quickly. It is a great place to share snd connect. I appreciate your hard work, Sam, and enjoy being a member! Love and hugs. Xx

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  3. Thank you so much for sharing everyone’s backgrounds. We’re all in this together through good days and bad. I look forward to new posts each day which are informative, helpful and often fun which we all need. So blessed to be a part of such a dedicated and supportive group! ❤️❤️❤️

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