Hope Begets Hope

I can remember as clearly as if it was yesterday, sitting in the dining room of our family home, staring at the plaque on the wall.

We’d had it for years and the words always provided me with a sense of comfort and security.

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” Hebrews 11 v 1

What I didn’t fully understand as a young girl, was just how much these words would mean to me in my adult life. How they would, on so many levels, become my story

Hope Deferred

We all need hope. Without it we can so quickly lose our desire to do anything.

Even the most positive of people can, at times in their lives, feel hopeless.

Loss of a job, death of a loved one, a relationship breakdown, financial worries etc, are all episodes in life capable of threatening our peace and security. They snatch hope from us and can leave us feeling bewildered and alone.

There is a verse in the Book of Proverbs which gets right to the heart of what a lack of hope does to us.

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” Proverbs 13 v 12

You know the feeling of a dream being realised? A hope fulfilled, faith rewarded! It’s an amazing feeling. Nothing can spoil that moment. You are full of so much joy, pain and sorrow and even sickness, seem to vanish as you relish in the realisation your hope, your faith, was not in vain.

Chronic Illness is perhaps one of the biggest threats to having a hope filled life. It sucks so much energy from us and as the name “chronic” suggests, there is little hope it is going away.

For many of us our diseases are not only chronic but progressive, perhaps even terminal.

So how do we deal with the subject of hope and faith and our need for dreams to be fulfilled?

Eagerly Waiting

I love this bible verse.

For we were saved in this hope, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.” Romans 8:24-25    

You need to read it a few times to get your head around it, but basically the key message is hope begets hope.

Hope is all about waiting. It’s about dreaming. It’s about persevering. It’s about not giving up. It’s about having faith and believing, with eager anticipation, your hope is not in vain. It will one day be realised.

I especially love the words in the verse, “eagerly waiting”.

To me they are full of life and hope.

For those of you with dogs you’ll know what’s it like to come home and see two eager eyes looking up at you with tail wagging. Full of joyful expectation of company, food treats and perhaps a good walk.

How eager are we when we think of our hopes and dreams? Perhaps you’ve stopped having hope, given up on dreams.

Perhaps it’s time to revisit the hopes you once had. They may be forgotten  but it doesn’t mean they can’t, in some way shape or form, be fulfilled.

So while we may not hold out much hope for a cure or a change anytime soon with our chronic illness, it doesn’t mean other areas of our lives can’t be full of hope.

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It All Starts With Faith

Yes, I’m a Christian, yes I believe in God and my faith is anchored in Him.

In this blog post I want to talk about what faith means in general.

Faith: Complete trust or confidence in someone or something. Oxford Dictionary 

The little dog wagging her tail eagerly awaiting her owner, has complete trust and confidence a reward awaits. That is “faith in the substance of things hoped for”.

We need to have faith in others, whether Doctors, friends, family, colleagues, your boss, a neighbour or your trusty furry, or feathered, companion.

We sometimes need faith in policies, organisations.

We also need faith in ourselves.

Without an element of faith, hope will not be realised.

Hope Begets Hope

Once we start thinking about things we hope to achieve, or hope to happen, we can begin to look beyond our diseases.

We can begin to connect with who we are, who we were and who we want to be.

Life is always going to be full of uncertainties. It doesn’t mean it has to be hopeless.

Hope begets hope.

As we start to remember what we once hoped for, there may be pain and sorrow for what realistically can’t be achieved. There will be hurts from past failures.

It’s important to grieve those losses and the associated pain.

Looking back at past hopes, unfulfilled hopes, may help you find new hopes.

What were your dreams? How can they be tailored to suit your chronic illness life? What can you do differently this time? We can learn so much from our mistakes.

What new hopes and dreams do you have? Start thinking about them, researching them, writing notes and planning how they could develop and be achieved.

This kind of activity is life giving. It’s a positive step forward and can take you from feeling hopeless to hopeful.

I can guarantee as you start to map out your new hopes, your new dreams, you will begin to feel a stirring of eager waiting, eager anticipation.

Trust yourself. Don’t be afraid to put your faith in others you may need, to help you realise your dream.

Hope will create more hope. It’s infectious, in a good way!

I hope you will be encouraged to take time to think about what can be achieved in your chronic illness life.

I hope you will feel a sense of joy and purpose stirring, as you remember you are more than your pain and your diagnosis. You have a life to live and it’s precious.

Hope begets hope.

Take care

Sam xx

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14 thoughts on “Hope Begets Hope

  1. I think you’re absolutely right about needing to process and grieve our hurt and losses, and to readjust perspectives to review what we’d like to see in our futures, what new/adapted dreams we may have. Holding on to hope is what will keep us going through the darkest of times and will make the brighter days all that more wonderful. Lovely post, Sam (sorry I’ve only just spotted it!) xx

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    1. Thanks Caz. You’ve had a tough time of late so no wonder you only just spotted it!!
      I’ve swapped places with you and I’m stuck in hospital with no eta yet of when I can go home. Thinking of you xx ❤

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  2. I’ve just had spinal surgery and been diagnosed with adrenal insufficiency. Hopeful of going home tomorrow with lots of outpatient monitoring.

    Surgery takes 3 months recovery and I can’t wait to get on with recovering at home xx

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    1. I wasn’t sure whether something had delayed your going home.. adrenal insufficiency, I’m glad they picked that up as that’s something that often goes undetected, so hopefully they can start some kind of treatment to help. You’ve been through the wringer, Sam. You’re one tough cookie. I hope the surgery was as successful as possible and that your recovery goes smoothly; it’ll be a long journey but getting home will be lovely. We can be surgery recovery buddies, although yours has been more significant than mine. Sending lots of love & hugs, and my fingers are crossed everything goes to plan so you can go home tomorrow  ♥🌷xxxxx

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      1. How is your recovery coming along? I was so sorry to hear the hospital experience was not a good one. You didn’t need that at all!!
        Yes, they are moving my from my Prednisone dosing for RA to Hydrocortisone to manage the insufficiency. Lots of tweaking with it all ahead of me but hopefully we’ll get a regular maintenance dosing in place sooner than later xx

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  3. I can honestly say it was one of the worst weeks of my life, but I’m very glad to be home. As for recover, it’s slow & a bit frustrating given the pain, but I’m doing better than I was, thank you.
    I hope the move to hydrocortisone helps. My dad’s on prednisone for RA but weaning off in the hopes that methotrexate is enough, but you’re right about how these things take a lot of tweaking and trial and error. Does it all look set for you coming home tomorrow? Are you being well looked after?xxx

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    1. Oh Caz, I’m so sorry. Recovery can be so tough when we are immune conpromised, exhausted and it’s another surgery added to the tally. My heart goes out to you and I do understand.

      Mostly this hospital stay has been filled with incredibly caring people. Ive been very blessed. I just haven’t slept and my room has had the worst aircon noise ever!!

      I had an awful hospital stay in Nov 2017. Of course I blogged about it to get it out of my head.

      One of my best friends is also in here having surgery so that’s been so lovely to have her come and visit me as she’s been able. She’s not too good now though so I’m a little worried and her experience sounds closer to yours. She also has a stoma.

      Yes, all set to head home in about 6 hours time! So excited xxxx

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  4. I love this, Sam. Lately, my hope AND faith have been tested; how I have managed to hang on, sometimes I ask myself. But verses such as Psalm 16:8 get me through every time.
    “I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.” Thank you for this beautiful post. I have tweeted and posted it on my Being Lydia FB page.

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  5. Thank you Sam, I’m just sitting here reading all your postings, been really lifted for doing so. I love the way you put words together. At times when I’m in so much pain it is very hard to explain myself. {I’m know I’m not on my own in that} and reading your posts is very comforting and I don’t feel so alone. I make a habit of not accepting my ‘Pity-party invitations’ and lately I’ve been very inclined not to send myself an ‘Inability to attend’. A few weeks back I was so miserable and on the verge of depression after seeing the surfing competitions in the news, sound silly, yep I was watching and had a real experience of loss as I had never been able to do that….you know, go thru he long waves. .Ooohhh poor me. Well I was 16 when I was in the accident and that was 62 yrs ago, I don’t know if the surf boards were even in existence then, not that type anyway. I do so appreciate your postings and your forums. ,

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