Happy 6th Stomaversary to Rudolph and Me!

I can’t believe today, on the 11th November, my beloved stoma, affectionately called Rudolph, is turning 6!

For those of you without a stoma it may seem a strange thing to celebrate. While it was life changing, it was also life saving and I will be forever grateful for the day of my stoma surgery.

Something About November

There must be something about November and surgery for me. This time last year I was about to undergo lumbar spinal surgery.

It’s funny how your mind begins to think about the logistics of moving post surgery…..or maybe that’s just me. Each time I’m preparing for surgery,  I find myself contemplating how I’ll have a catheter when I wake up, and how relieved I always am I won’t have to think about using a pan or getting up before I’m able.

I then realised another reason for being grateful for Rudolph. No bed pans for that end either. Just the convenience of my stoma bag. All areas covered. See, there really are bonuses to every situation if you look for them.

Rudolph and Rosie

One of the things I am definitely celebrating as my 6 year Stomaversary comes around, is the friendships I’ve made in the Ostomate community.

My closed Facebook support forum, Medical Musings with Friends has quite a few members who also have stomas. We share a special bond, a knowing understanding.

Over the years, three of my Administration team members have had stomas, all of us for varying reasons…..Crohns Disease, Ulcerative Colitis and a Non-functioning bowel. Their friendship and understanding means so much to me.

There is one friendship that has always been extra special. We shared the same Surgeon and, without knowing it at the time, our stomas were created only a few days apart.

Our paths crossed through an online stoma forum quite by chance. Our stories were so similar and we clicked instantly. Our friendship blossomed via texts, phone calls and we eventually had the opportunity to meet in person. What a special day that was!

Over the past 6 years we have journeyed through so many highs and lows of life, all as a result of meeting because we had a stoma. We have also laughed, sometimes cried, over their antics. You can click here to read all about Rudolph and Rosie and their adventures!


Blessed With Time To Decide

I was blessed to be able to have time to make the decision to have a stoma. While I didn’t have a choice, my Colorectal Surgeon very gently led me through a process, where I could of my own free will say to him “I’m ready, let’s do this”.

Not everyone gets that opportunity. While I’m celebrating a positive health life choice, I also am thinking of those who are still struggling to come to terms with such a radical change to their lives.

Many receive a stoma through emergency surgery due to bowel perforations, a cancer diagnosis and other health scenarios requiring urgent intervention. My heart goes out to those in that situation.

I believe it’s good to take the opportunity to reflect on life changes. It’s important to me to take a moment, to remember what life was like before my stoma and why having it has been such a positive experience.

If you’re interested in “why” Rudolph is a permanent fixture in my life, you can read the full journey in My Stoma Story, A Happy Ending

Happy 6th Birthday Rudolph and thank you for making my life so much better!

Sam xx


If you’re looking for genuine support, care, understanding & friendship, you are so welcome to join my closed Facebook support forum, Medical Musings with Friends . It’s a safe place to connect with others living with chronic & complex diseases, who truly understand the daily challenges. A warm welcome awaits.

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4 thoughts on “Happy 6th Stomaversary to Rudolph and Me!

  1. It’s interesting to learn more about how people come to have their stomas, in terms of whether it was a ‘decision’, whether you had time to contemplate it first or whether it was something you didn’t know you were getting until you got it. The reasons for having a stoma and the journey to that point can be so different for everyone. I’m glad you’ve made those close connections, especially with that one special person you share a surgeon with. I’ve made friends online, and have met a few people in person, who had the same surgeon as me from my first botched surgery; we’re united in a common cause, a common sense of tragedy, and those ladies mean a lot to me, too.
    Happy Stomaversary!  ♥
    Caz xx

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