Creating Comfort And Joy At Christmas

“Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la, la la la la” 🎵🎶

Is it? Do you feel jolly or do you feel exhausted, stressed?

Do you feel overwhelmed by your chronic illness, which refuses to understand Christmas is fast approaching, and you really could do with feeling healthy for the festive season?

We can dream can’t we of halcyon days, but the reality is our chronic diseases are generally here to stay. So we need to find new ways to live well during a holly, jolly Christmas time.

Softly and Gently

My chronic disease places many physical restrictions on me and, as a result, has removed many simple joys from Christmas pasts.

I can no longer bake my Christmas cake and pudding. It was always the baking process I enjoyed and the smell of it cooking. Ooh…not to mention decorating it with marzipan and royal icing.

I can no longer bake a full Christmas dinner (although my hubby can and he’s a great cook). I miss stuffing the turkey and working out the timing to put on the roast vegies etc. So much fun.

My list could go on as I think about the simple traditions of old I used to enjoy in my home.

Whatever I do now needs to be done in a way that’s “softly and gently”. So new traditions need to be formed.

Traditions which will conjure up the Christmas spirit. Traditions which will make Christmas, my Christmas, full of “Comfort and Joy.”

Luke 2:10-11 New King James Version (NKJV)

10 Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. 11 For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.

Comfort And Joy

When I think of Christmas at home, I think of being nestled and surrounded by the people and the things I love.

Being mostly housebound due to my disease, means my new Christmas  traditions need to be focused in the home.

I love my home so that’s a good start. I love creating spaces of comfort and joy, all year round, where I can read, write, listen to music. Now all I have to do is make those spaces feel like Christmas in some way.

It’s all pretty basic really but when all the pieces of my new Christmas traditions come together, I have not only created a sense of comfort and joy, but I can sing with meaning, ” Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la, la la la la”🎵🎶

So what are my “Comfort and Joy ” traditions? I’d love to share them with you. Remember though, this is what I enjoy.

You can create your own “Comfort and Joy” traditions which reflect your loves and lifestyle. Hopefully my ideas will just give you a starting point and get your brain thinking about how to make Christmas a jolly season in your home.

These Are A Few Of My Favourite Things

  1. It all starts with a Christmas Tree. Now I have no capability of putting my tree up anymore but I’m blessed my husband can. I’m a great artistic director though! If you can’t put a tree up, decorate an indoor plant or perhaps buy a pre decorated small table tree. It’s all about creating an atmosphere which makes you smile.20191204_140813
  2. Deck The Halls. I love having ornaments and special Christmas books adorning my home. It means everywhere I go in my house, I get that sense of  ” It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas”. It’s also something I can physically do in terms of arranging them. It brings me great joy.20191204_144456.jpg
  3. Creating Special Daily Moments. One of the things I have always loved is the lead up to Christmas. So I decided to buy a new Advent Calendar this year. It’s made of wood and I’ve filled each little box with a Christmas surprise. My husband and I take turns opening the days box each morning. It’s a bit of fun and sets the season aside from any usual day. I’ve placed it in our bedroom, so I wake up to something special which brings me comfort and joy.20191204_140934.jpg
  4. Special Corners. Having a special  place to sit and relax, is really important when living with chronic illness. An armchair next to a table for books, a cup of tea and a special Christmas ornament, brings me a great deal of comfort and joy. Add in some Christmas music and the scene is set for feeling it really is the season to be jolly. 20191204_140847.jpg

Special Gifts

Last Christmas my Aunty sent us the most delightful book. She sent it early and told us to open it straight away. We soon discovered why, as it’s full of wonderful Christmas stories and traditions. It’s written by Songs of Praise presenter Pam Rhodes.

My husband and I love reading together, so every morning we read a chapter of this beautiful book. It makes us laugh, cry and reminisce, as many of the stories rekindle memories of our bygone Christmas traditions. 20191204_104942.jpg

Would you believe, as I’ve been writing this blog  my husband just walked in from the post office with a big Christmas box.

“Guess who this is from?”, he asked with a huge smile on his face!

I had no idea so I had to try and elevate myself off the bed, where I was blogging and resting my broken bones, to unravel the mystery.

I finally made it to the kitchen to discover the beautiful box was from my gorgeous step daughter and family. How exciting! I just had to know if we were allowed to open it or if it was to be kept for Christmas Day.

A quick text and and equally quick reply, told us it was an Advent gift and we were to open it.

Now here was a definite comfort and joy moment. Family, love and early  Christmas presents! How jolly is that!

The gift is gorgeous. A glorious Christmas village scene, made of wood, which lights up and will bring us so much joy throughout this holly, jolly season.20191204_153947.jpg

Tis The Season To Be Jolly

Christmas is not always a jolly season for people, for many reasons. It can often be a Blue Christmas, rather than one filled with red, green and gold.

It doesn’t have to be lavish though to be special and it doesn’t have to be happy and jolly every moment. My days are full of severe pain and many moments are too distressing physically to possibly be jolly.

However, the Christmas atmosphere I’ve created in my home, and the simple traditions I can embrace despite my health issues, these bring me comfort. Sitting in my chair looking at the lights twinkling on the Christmas Tree, or reading a chapter from a Christmas book with my husband, this brings me great joy.

Whatever your circumstances, if you can find something special this Christmas and create a new tradition, which is right for you, I’d encourage you to do it.

Chronic Illness is hard enough every day. At this time of the year a festive distraction could just be what the Doctor ordered.

I hope and pray your lead up to Christmas can be filled with moments of comfort and joy.

With love

Sam xx


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15 thoughts on “Creating Comfort And Joy At Christmas

  1. A beautiful Christmas and all the beauty of this Season. I love this glimpse of your Christmas. We have minimal decorations this year as we are flying to Hobart to spend the Christmas week with Jeff’s Sis. I am nervous about the logistics of the two flights from Cairns to Hobart but looking forward to a different Christmas. Thanks as always, Sam 💜

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  2. Ok, that’s done it. This post has officially started to melt my cold, cold heart & I can feel the Grinch stepping back! It just shows how a little reframing can make a big difference – ‘comfort’ and joy, emphasis on comfort. I love it, and I love seeing your decorations and comfy corner (brilliant idea). That gift from your step daughter and family is amazing, what a beautiful display! xx

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