Decking The Halls And Creating Comfort And Joy At Christmas

“Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la, la la la la” 🎵🎶

Is it? Do you feel jolly or do you feel exhausted, stressed?

Do you feel overwhelmed by your chronic illness, which refuses to understand Christmas is fast approaching, and you really could do with feeling healthy for the festive season?

We can dream can’t we of halcyon days, but the reality is our chronic diseases are generally here to stay. So we need to find new ways to live well during a holly, jolly Christmas time.

Softly and Gently

My chronic disease places many physical restrictions on me and, as a result, has removed many simple joys from Christmas pasts.I can no longer bake my Christmas cake and pudding. It was always the baking process I enjoyed and the smell of it cooking. Ooh…not to mention decorating it with marzipan and royal icing.

I can no longer bake a full Christmas dinner (although my hubby can and he’s a great cook). I miss stuffing the turkey and working out the timing to put on the roast vegies etc. So much fun…..when you get it right!

My list could go on as I think about the simple traditions of old I used to enjoy in my home.

Whatever I do now needs to be done in a way that’s “softly and gently”.

So new traditions need to be formed.Traditions which will conjure up the Christmas spirit. Traditions which will make Christmas, my Christmas, full of “Comfort and Joy.”

Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. 

Luke 2:10-11New King James Version (NKJV)

Comfort And Joy

When I think of Christmas at home, I think of being nestled and surrounded by the people and the things I love.Being mostly housebound due to my disease, means my new Christmas traditions need to be focused totally in the home.I love my home so that’s a good start.

I love creating spaces of comfort and joy, all year round, where I can read, write, listen to music.

Now all I have to do is make those spaces feel like Christmas in some way.It’s all pretty basic really so when all the pieces of my new Christmas traditions come together, I have not only created a sense of comfort and joy, but I can sing with meaning, ” Tis the season to be jolly, fa la la la la, la la la la”🎵🎶

So what are my “Comfort and Joy ” traditions? I’d love to share them with you. Remember though, this is what I enjoy.You can create your own “Comfort and Joy” traditions which reflect your loves and lifestyle.

Hopefully my ideas will just give you a starting point and get your brain thinking about how to make Christmas a jolly season in your home.

These Are A Few Of My Favourite Things

  1. It all starts with a Christmas Tree. Now I have no capability of putting my tree up anymore but I’m blessed my husband can. I’m a great artistic director though! If you can’t put a tree up, decorate an indoor plant or perhaps buy a pre decorated small table tree. It’s all about creating an atmosphere which makes you smile.20191204_140813
  2. Deck The Halls. I love having ornaments and special Christmas books adorning my home. It means everywhere I go in my house, I get that sense of ” It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas”. It’s also something I can physically do in terms of arranging them. It brings me great joy.20191204_144456.jpg
  3. Creating Special Daily Moments. One of the things I have always loved is the lead up to Christmas. So I decided to buy a new Advent Calendar last year. It’s made of wood and I fill each little box with a Christmas surprise. My husband and I take turns opening the days box each morning from the 1st December through to Christmas Day. It’s a bit of fun and sets the season aside from any usual day. I placed it in our bedroom, so I wake up to something special which brings me the feelings of comfort and joy.20191204_140934.jpg
  4. Special Corners. Having a special place to sit and relax, is really important when living with chronic illness. An armchair next to a table for books, a cup of tea and a special Christmas ornament, brings me a great deal of comfort and joy. Add in some Christmas music and the scene is set for embracing “tis the season to be jolly”

Special Gifts

The Christmas before last, my Aunty sent us the most delightful book. She sent it early and told us to open it straight away. We soon discovered why, as it’s full of wonderful Christmas stories and traditions.

It’s written by Songs of Praise presenter, Pam Rhodes.My husband and I love reading together so, every morning during December, we read a chapter of this beautiful book.

It makes us laugh, cry and reminisce, as many of the stories rekindle memories of our bygone Christmas traditions.


Last Christmas I was contemplating special gifts and blogging on the topic, when my husband walked in from the post office with a big Christmas box.“Guess who this is from?”, he asked with a huge smile on his face!

I had no idea so I had to try and elevate myself off the chair, where I’d been happily writing and resting my broken bones, to unravel the mystery.

I finally made it to the kitchen, crutches in hand, to discover the beautiful box was from my gorgeous step daughter and family.

How exciting! I just had to know if we were allowed to open it or if it was to be kept for Christmas Day.

A quick text and an equally quick reply, told us it was an Advent gift and we were to open it.Now here was a definite comfort and joy moment. Family, love and early Christmas presents!

The gift was gorgeous. A glorious Christmas village scene, made of wood, which lights up and brought us so much joy throughout last year’s holly, jolly season. We can’t wait to put it out again this year!


Tis Not Always The Season To Be Jolly

Christmas is not always a jolly season for people, for many reasons. It can often be a Blue Christmas, rather than one filled with red, green and gold.

It doesn’t have to be lavish though to be special and it doesn’t have to be happy and jolly every moment.

My days are full of severe pain and many moments are too distressing physically to possibly be jolly.However, the Christmas atmosphere I’ve created in my home, and the simple traditions I can embrace despite my health issues, these bring me comfort.

Sitting in my chair looking at the lights twinkling on the Christmas Tree, or reading a chapter from a Christmas book with my husband, this brings me great joy.

Whatever your circumstances, if you can find something special this Christmas and create a new tradition, which is right for you, I’d encourage you to do it.

Chronic Illness is hard enough every day. At this time of the year a festive distraction could just be what the Doctor ordered.

I hope and pray your lead up to Christmas can be filled with moments of comfort and joy.

With love

Sam xx

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7 thoughts on “Decking The Halls And Creating Comfort And Joy At Christmas

  1. I have to admit I have become a bit cynical about Christmas. The magic has mostly passed me by. So each year I struggle a bit. This happened not surprisingly related to death (my mom) and of course this sting just never goes away sometimes.

    Given my general funk our celebration is perhaps more low key than it might be otherwise. we do midnight church, watch the wonderful programs on Christmas morning, have a great lunch and remind each other that we are better together than we could be apart. This year I doubt we will see the grandchildren, so we will mix in calls and talk of the many many blessings we have.

    Come to think of it maybe our celebration is joyous.

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  2. Thanks Sam for another great read and inspiration for Christmas. This year our eldest son will be here with us on Christmas Day so that is my inspiration! He works and lives overseas so many special occasions past by. Still can’t get into putting the Christmas tree up or decorations atm but from 1st December I will put it up and get our 6 year old grandson to decorate it. He is also my inspiration for doing things and making him happy. I feel a bit lazy but with chronic pain it is hard at times to get motivated.

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    1. I think the 1st December is perfect. We’ll be doing the same…well I’ll mostly be directing and Peter will be decorating but we’ll at least be together.
      You are definitely not lazy!! So glad you’re son will be home for Christmas xx


  3. Hi Sam,
    We have to learn to adjust and do a great job. I’m so glad my husband likes to decorate the Christmas tree, I just pick out the special ornaments and he takes care of the rest. I did put up a garland this year because I’m having a good six months. I think it’s also a mindset that we apply to everyday life that’s gets us thru the holidays. Beautiful village, that was a great gift.

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